Try giving the grid question this custom JavaScript verification:
var foundColumn1 = false;
$('input[name="hid_row_list_[% QuestionName() %]"]').val().split(',').forEach(function(row){
if (SSI_GetValue('[% QuestionName() %]_r' + row) == 1) {
if (foundColumn1) {
strErrorMessage = 'Please review your answers.';
}
foundColumn1 = true;
}
});